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Greetings,
It is week full of queries and insights.
This subject is connected to what I wrote about in
Boundaries .
We need discernment to exercise appropriate boundaries.
Discernment is the monitor to limit our level of disclosure.
it is about how much to share in a situation.
In quest for instant intimacy, some of us reveal too much too soon.
The result of this can be the other person feeling bombarded with information.
Instead of intimacy, we can create an awkward situation where the other feels discomfort at best and disinterest at worst.
Discernment is the middle ground. It is the place of Emotional intelligence and maturity.
Withholding is the polarity of too much disclosure. It is a place of not knowing how to share and reveal of ourselves.
To withhold means to be guarded and secretive, it is the anthesis of intimacy.
When we withhold we are not being honest. We are keeping vital information to ourselves thus we can not be known.
This behavior stops intimacy.
I have been challenged about the difference. For me it comes down to knowing what to reveal and how much and when, this I call Discernment .
Withholding is keeping relevant information that can lead to stopping intimacy even with ourselves.
It is a place of fear and deceit.
This is purely my interpretation which you do not have to take.
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Maite
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Relationships can offer us the opportunity to understand ourselves.
The way we relate to others is often a mirror of how we relate to ourselves.
Sometimes both situations present us with challenges.
This can be the beginning of a journey of deepening our self knowledge and of conscious participation in our lives.
Change can hit us unexpectedly. How do you
Feel about consciously participating in the changes that arise?
Discernment Versus Withholding